The Howe Lectures

I just read my last blog...and it does sound a little bit like a lecture. So be it. I believe that I'm not done parenting yet....so if I can share a few insights via blogging, then I can say I am still providing some guidance or some wisdom. And as I keep hearing..."you're the Mom. You're supposed to know..."

So that was Howe Lecture No. 1. Be happy.

Dad has given his share of Howe Lectures....I don't think I've given mine though. His run along the line of action: Solve the problem. Mark your own scorecard. Give 'em Hell. Tough guy stuff. All good.

I think mine are going to be more personal. Starting with be happy. Be unselfish and more forgiving. Be grateful for every little thing....even the smallest act. Be personally responsible for the affect you have on others....from personal hygiene (take those showers, Will, even though you hate them, and your shower is too short for you) to sending a note or card, (or calling your Aunt Grace, Emily, to thank her for the kitchen dish towels she embroidered for you--I'll text you her number).

I am so proud of all of you. I am so happy that you all love each other and get along so well. And that you are all speaking to me. You should hear the stories I hear from other parents! So much turbulence! I am very grateful to have 5 + 3 + 1 winners in the Howe clan!

Bet you can't wait for lecture no. 3!